Thursday, October 29, 2009

Why Are You Wearing a Skirt?!

Question of the Week:
 
I am an observant girl and I plan to run the New York City Marathon this November. I will wear a long skirt, as I always do. I need a good answer to give people who will inevitably ask "why are you wearing a skirt?"

Answer:

It is highly impractical to run a marathon wearing a skirt. Not that I have ever tried (either running a marathon or wearing a skirt, let alone both at once) but I can only imagine that it would slow you down and somewhat hamper your success.
 
But practicality is not everything. Your determination to run the marathon in a skirt is a credit to you. Life is a marathon, and you win not by running the fastest, but by living according to higher standards.
 
A woman's body has a mystique and power that should not be flaunted or cheapened. That's why Jewish law requires that a woman's figure should not to be accentuated by her clothes. Skirts, unlike pants, fulfil this requirement.
 
Of course there are baggy pants that don't accentuate the body, and there are tight skirts that do (and indeed tight or short skirts defeat the purpose and are not kosher). But there is something else about skirts that make them appropriate as opposed to pants. A skirt is distinctly and unmistakably feminine. Skirts help nurture and express the female identity.
 
The way we dress does not only send a message to others about who we are, it actually affects our own view of ourselves. When a woman dresses in a way that is clearly feminine, she proudly affirms her identity as a woman. She need not imitate men or compete with them, she can be herself and be proud.
 
The last four decades have seen women make huge progress in every area of life, something Judaism applauds and embraces. But we have also seen women trying to catch up with men in a way that denies their femininity. Instead of flourishing as women, they sometimes have been made to feel that they have to become more male than men. In so doing, the world loses out on hearing the uniquely feminine voice. And women lose out even more, for they are not being themselves.
 
The skirt represents a proud feminine stance. When you run a marathon wearing a skirt, you are making a clear statement. I am not trying to catch up with men. I am running my own race, keeping my femininity in tact. In that race, you have already won.
 
Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

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Thursday, October 22, 2009

Is My Dog in Heaven?

Question of the Week:
 
My family has been greatly saddened by the loss of our beautiful German shepherd to cancer. My daughter told me she was sure our dog has a soul and would now be in heaven. Is this in accordance with our faith?
 
Answer:
 
I am sorry hear that news. I hope you find comfort in the following thought.
 
Very often animals are reincarnated human souls. The Kabbalah teaches that some people leave this world without having learnt all the lessons they needed to learn, or without having achieved all that their soul was meant to achieve. So their soul is sent down again as an animal. In this form, they learn the required lessons, and then they are ready to move on to higher worlds.
 
This may have happened to your dog. The Kabbalists said that dogs are known to be faithful, loyal and protective. A dog will stick by its owner, putting itself in danger to ensure its owner's safety and wellbeing. A soul that lacked these traits in its human lifetime may be sent back down as a dog to attain these qualities.
 
Perhaps your dog was a soul that in a previous life had barked up the wrong tree. Maybe she was disloyal to her G-d, unfaithful to her people or untrue to her family, and therefore needed to come down again to learn fidelity and devotion. Or perhaps she came to protect your family from harm, because in a previous life she had failed to protect her own family. She excelled in these areas, and so her mission is complete.
 
We can't know these things for sure. But one thing we know is that her soul is better off now. Your family looked after her for her time here. Now the time has come for the soul within her to be released. She has learnt her lessons of faithfulness and loyalty. Hopefully you have too.
 
Don't wait for the next reincarnation to live a faithful life. Do it now.
 
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Thursday, October 15, 2009

Evolution vs Creation

Question of the Week:
 
Recently my son and I were talking about the origins of humankind. He said that he was offended by the belief that man had descended from the ape family, and was adamant that we all came from Adam and Eve. I on the other hand believe Darwin's theory to be a more reasonable explanation of our evolution, and think it is ridiculous to continue teaching children the creation myth. As this discussion can go round in circles are you able to shed some light on this age old topic?

Answer:
 
An elderly rabbi was once on an airplane to Israel sitting next to a self-professed atheist. They were amicably chatting the whole trip.
 
Every now and then, the rabbi's grandchild, sitting in another row, would come over to him, bringing him a drink, or asking if he could get anything to make him more comfortable. After this happened several times, the atheist sighed, "I wish my grandchildren would treat me with such respect. They hardly even say hello to me. What's your secret?"
 
The rabbi replied, "Think about it. To my grandchildren, I am two generations closer to Adam and Eve, the people made by the hand of G-d. So they look up to me. But according to the philosophy which you teach your grandchildren, you are two generations closer to being an ape. So why should they look up to you?"

Beliefs have consequences. Why do you think children today lack respect and are unable to honour their elders? Why is tradition looked down upon, and the values of the past all but forgotten? Is it not a natural consequence of modern education? If we teach our children that they are merely advanced animals, then they will act that way. And they will treat their parents and teachers like the obsolete versions of humanity that they are.

We have to be aware of the affects of our beliefs. If we believe that humans came about by accident, then life has no meaning. There can be no meaning to something that happens by chance. A random explosion or mutation cannot give us purpose. My life, your life and all human history has no real significance whatsoever. Whether I live a good life or one full of evil makes no difference. It is all a big accident anyway.

We only have purpose if we were created on purpose. Our lives only have meaning if we were created by a meaningful being. If we teach our children that they were created on purpose with a purpose, then they will know that more is expected from them than from an animal. The Adam and Eve story needs to be taught, not just because it is true, but because it is the basis of morality.

Both creationism and Darwinism require faith. To accept that G-d created man and woman requires faith. To accept that a single-celled organism spontaneously mutated billions of times to form the human being also requires faith. But only one of these beliefs demands that we live a moral life. That's the one I want my kids to know about.

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Thursday, October 8, 2009

The Real Grand Final

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Question of the Week:
 
Thanks for the invite, but I won't be able to attend your Simchas Torah celebration this Saturday night. I have booked tickets to a game and I don't want to miss it. Anyway, I only go to synagogue for the High Holydays. You don't expect me to give up a game for another prayer service, do you?
 
Answer:
 
I agree, it would be foolish to book tickets to an event and then not show up. That's why you should come to shule on Saturday night.
 
Simchas Torah is a celebration of Jewishness, the grand finale of the High Holyday season. All the hard work of the High Holydays comes to fruition on this day. The prayers and Shofar blasts on Rosh Hashanah, the fasting and supplication on Yom Kippur, are all just the build up to the final crescendo, the dancing on Simchas Torah.
 
We pray to be blessed with a sweet new year on Rosh Hashanah; we ask that our soul be cleansed on Yom Kippur; but it is through the joy and dancing on Simchas Torah that we actually bring down all the blessings that we have prayed for.
 
To go to shule for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur and then miss out on Simchas Torah is like waiting in line to buy tickets to a game and not showing up to the game itself. At the height of Yom Kippur your soul was given a ticket. You claim your place on Simchas Torah.
 
So you have two tickets, one to be a passive spectator at a game, the other to be an active participant in a holy moment. You choose which is not worth missing: to watch the strength of the human body, or to experience the exhilaration of the human soul.
 
Some people think synagogue services are boring. They have never been to a Simchas Torah service. Try it once and you'll be a fan for life.
 
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Thursday, October 1, 2009

Did You Keep Your New Year's Resolution?

Question of the Week:
 
Why do we celebrate the festival of Sukkos immediately after Yom Kippur? Wouldn't it be better to space out these festivals? Or is there some connection between fasting on Yom Kippur and eating in an outdoor hut for a week?
 
Answer:
 
The first thing we do in the new year is make resolutions. The second thing we do is break them. At a moment of inspiration we promise to curb our temper, become more generous, speak to G-d more or quit a bad habit. But soon after we go back to our old ways as if nothing happened. Often a sincere resolution is forgotten as quickly as it was made.
 
The reason: compartmentalisation. Our personalities are divided. We have a holy soul, and we have a physical body. My soul has good intentions and wants to change and improve and grow, but my body is lazy and complacent and can't be bothered.
 
On Yom Kippur I put my body aside and feel my soul, and so I want to soar to new spiritual heights. After Yom Kippur my body reasserts itself, and the yearnings of the soul are forgotten. My soul suggests a resolution; my body vetoes it.
 
The solution: enter a Sukkah. We sit in the Sukkah with our entire being - our body and our soul, our lowly side as well as our lofty side. It is one of the only mitzvos that we do with our whole person. And what do we do in the Sukkah? We eat and drink.
 
Unlike Yom Kippur, when it is a mitzvah to fast and ignore the body, on Sukkos the mitzvah is to indulge the body with food and drink in the Sukkah. On Yom Kippur we neglect our body to allow the soul's true nature to shine forth; on Sukkos we invite our body to join in and be inspired too. On Yom Kippur we see the body as being an impediment to the soul; on Sukkos, by bringing our entire being into the holy space of the Sukkah, and doing a mitzvah with our body, the body becomes a partner to the soul. Then the good resolutions of the soul can be implemented by the body.
 
The Sukkah experience is one of wholesomeness. By making the body a partner in our soul's enterprise, our resolve from Yom Kippur can be translated into reality. Don't miss out on this festival, the one that brings the High Holydays down to earth.
 
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