Thursday, October 27, 2016

Imagine No Religion

Question of the Week
     
I don't want my children to be small-minded and look down at others, so I haven't given them a Jewish education. They have been brought up without any religion; they are free to choose whatever beliefs they like. I try to live by the words of John Lennon:
 
Imagine there's no countries / It isn't hard to do,
Nothing to kill or die for / No religion too,
Imagine all the people / living life in peace...
 
Doesn't that sum it all up?
 
Answer: 
 
I admire your passion and idealism. You have obviously given some thought to your children's moral future, which is a credit to you. But I don't see how the philosophy you have espoused is any less closed-minded than fundamentalist religion.
 
You don't want to force your ideals on your children. But by denying them their spiritual heritage, you are doing just that. They are missing the chance to explore their Jewish identities during their formative years. They didn't choose that, you did. You have decided their religion for them. They are Lennonists whether they like it or not.
 
And if that song is your bible, then they are being brought up in a much more closed-minded religion than Judaism.
 
You have only quoted one verse. But I think the last verse of the song is the most revealing:
 
You may say I'm a dreamer / But I'm not the only one.
I hope someday you'll join us / And the world will live as one.
 
So, according to Lennonism there is "you" and there is "us". You are the unenlightened ones. We have found the truth. But hopefully one day you will see the light and become one of us too. Only then can the world finally live as one. Is that open-minded?
 
Contrast this with Judaism's view that not everyone has to be Jewish. A non-Jew can live a perfectly fulfilling and meaningful life while remaining a non-Jew. They don't have to join us to be considered a good person. If anything can make us truly live as one, it is the recognition that we are all created by the same G-d, but we don't all have to serve Him in the same way.
 
We each choose a value system to live by and to teach our children. Whether you call it religion or something else makes little difference, it is a particular way of looking at the world. And much of what is presented today as open-minded secularism is as narrow and self-righteous as the most fundamentalist sect.
 
Imagine a religion that teaches its children to be proud of who they are, but that not everyone has to be like them. Can you think of a religion like that?
 
It's easy if you try.
 
Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

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SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO
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Friday, 28 October 2016 | 26 Tishrei 5777
Candle Lighting................ 7:02 pm (*Earliest 6:00pm)  
Mincha............................. 6:10 pm
Friday Evening Service....... 6:30-7:20 pm
Followed by Kiddush.

Shabbos, 29 October, 2016 |27 Tishrei 5777
Chassidus Class........................ 9:00 am
Shabbos Morning Service........ 10:00 am-12:15 pm
Children's program................. 11:00am
Followed by Farbrengen/Lunch in honour of our Simchas Torah Chassanim
 
Mincha................................................   6:55 pm
Seudah Shlishis
Gematria and Story by Rev Amzalak...... 7:15 pm
Shiur:.................................................. 7:35 pm
Shabbos ends and Maariv...................... 8:00 pm
Followed by Havdalah.
 
MOLAD/ NEW MOON |MONDAY 31 OCT 3:24:5am 
ROSH CHODESH CHESHVAN | TUES-WED 1-2 NOV
 
WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES
Sunday ........................................... 8:00 am
Mon- Fri........................................... 7:00 am
Latest Shema this week................... 9:17 am

WEEKDAY CLASSES
Chassidus.................................. 8:00-8:45 am
 
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO
Asher Waine......................... 29 Tishrei/ Monday 31 Oct
Tom Cromer........................... 2 Cheshvan/Thursday 3 Nov
Monique Klein........................ 3 Cheshvan / Friday 4 Nov
 
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO
Pia & Jonah Ink.................... 2 Cheshvan/ Wednesday 3 Nov
 
LONG LIFE TO
Peppi Glick for his late father
Ruby Glick........................... 2 Cheshvan/ Thursday 3 Nov
Les Pozniak for his late step-mother Joan Pozniak,
Chai Bat Leah..................... 2 Cheshvan/ Thursday 3 Nov
Roy Eckowitz for his late mother Alma Eckowitz,
Chana bat Kalman ............. 2 Cheshvan/ Thursday 3 Nov

SHABBOS PROJECT SAVE THE DATE

Friday night 11 November ......Shul service followed by dinner
Shabbos day 12 November ....Shul service followed by lunch
Shabbos afternoon ............... Activities for children

Nefesh Shul, 54 Roscoe Street, Bondi Beach, NSW 2026 Australia
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Thursday, October 20, 2016

Do We Still Need Second Day Yomtov?

LATE TORAH DANCE FOR KIDS TUESDAY 5PM see below

YOM TOV ALIYAH OR YIZKOR DONATIONS PLEASE CLICK HERE 

Question of the Week
    
Why on earth do we still keep two days of Yomtov outside of Israel? I know the history: in ancient times people didn't have calendars on their phones, because the calendar was not set in advance, but rather month by month. When witnesses saw the new moon they reported it to the rabbis in the Temple, and the rabbis would declare that a new month had begun. It would take a couple of weeks for the message to reach outlying communities, so they could never be sure of the correct date to celebrate the festivals. So the diaspora communities kept two days to be on the safe side. 
 
That made sense back then, but for heavens sake, we have calendars today! Why do we still keep two days in the diaspora for every festival that is one day in Israel?
 
For me, this is one of the most ridiculous laws. It's like the World Jewish Council of Rabbis can't be bothered to overturn it or discuss it. Or perhaps they fear a backlash from Jewish bakers, butchers and grocers around the world who like having more Jewish festivals with more meals....
 
Can't we update this one already?
 
Answer:
 
I remember I had a teacher who had little patience. If a student missed out on what he said, he got furious and thundered, "Why can't you listen the first time? I will not repeat myself."
 
This is not fair. Not everyone can grasp an idea all at once. There are some gifted individuals who are sharp enough to get it the first time. But many of us need to hear something twice before it sinks in. a good teacher should no this.
 
G-d is the greatest teacher, and time itself is His classroom. Every festival in the Jewish calendar is like a lesson G-d teaches to the world. On Pesach we learn about freedom, and G-d beams a light of freedom into the world. On Sukkos we study the meaning of true happiness, and G-d sends the gift of joy into our hearts. Each festival and its observances are the way we receive the lesson, the light and wisdom of the day.
 
When you live in the Holy Land, its very air makes you wise, it opens you up to spiritual wisdom. Like a gifted student, you get the lesson the first time. You need only celebrate one day of each festival, and its message hits home straight away.
 
In the diaspora, we just don't get it so fast. We need more time for the lesson to sink in, as the air here is not as spiritually refined as Israel air. And so we are given a second day, another chance to fully absorb the power of the festival and for the message to hit home.
 
Our sages prophesied that one day in the future, the holiness of Israel will cover the entire earth, and then we will all get it the first time. Until then, we in the diaspora can enjoy the extended holiness of an extra day. 
 
Make sense? If not I am happy to repeat it...
 
Good Shabbos and Good Yomtov,
Rabbi Moss

Source:
Likkutei Torah Shmini Atzeres 92c


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We are offering the following honours for the late Torah reading, first come first served:
Chosson Torah $1000
Chosson Bereishis SOLD
Chosson Maftir SOLD
Chosson Kol Hanearim $360
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MAZEL TOV TO OUR SIMCHAS TORAH HONOREES!

Chosson Torah.......................Jack Reuben
Chosson Bereishis..................Rabbi Sufrin
Chosson Maftir.......................Vitali Broyde
Chosson Kol Hanearim...........Mike Barel
Hagbaah................................Dan Barnett
Hagbaah................................Jeremy Waine


SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO
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Friday, 21 October 2016 | 20 Tishrei 5777
Candle Lighting........................ 6:55 pm (*Earliest 5:55pm)  
Mincha..................................... 6:10 pm
Kids program ........................... 6:30 pm
Friday Evening Service
(NEW SUMMER TIME)............... 6:30-7:20 pm
Followed by Kiddush in the Sukkah sponsored by Larnce Gold in honour of his birthday on the 19 Tishrei- Mazal Tov; and Libby Moss and Peter Irving in honour of the 40th yarzheit of their father, Tzvi ben Reuven a"h - Long Life.

Shabbos, 22 October, 2016 |20 Tishrei 5777
Shabbos Morning Service.................... 10:00am-12:30pm
Barmitzvah of Arnaud Tartour
Children's program............................ 11:00am
Followed by Kiddush in the Sukkah in honour of the barmitzvah of Arnaud Tartour- Mazal Tov!
 
Mincha.......................................................   6:50 pm
Seudah Shlishis
Gematria and Story by Rev Amzalak............. 7:10 pm
Shiur:......................................................... 7:30 pm
Shabbos ends and Maariv............................. 7:53 pm
Followed by Havdalah.
 
WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES
Sunday ...................................................... 8:00 am
Wed, Thurs & Fri......................................... 7:00 am
Latest Shema this week.............................. 9:21 am
 
MAZAL TOV TO
Frederic Tartour, Dana Levy, Maxime Tartour and the extended family on Arnaud's Barmitzvah.
 
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO
Larnce Gold.............................. 19 Tishrei/ Friday 21 Oct
Maya Segre.............................. 23 Tishrei/ Tuesday 25 Oct
 
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO
Bella & Reuven Barukh............. 26 Tishrei/ Friday 28 Oct
 
LONG LIFE TO
Libby Moss and Peter Irving for their late father, Henry Irving, Tzvi ben Reuven 
20 Tishrei/ Saturday 22 Oct

YOM TOV SERVICE TIMES
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HOSHANA RABBA | Sunday 23 October, 2016
Shachris .......................... 8:00am
Candle Lighting................. 6:57pm (*Earliest 5:56pm)
Mincha ............................ 7:05pm

SHEMINI ATZERES
Yom Tov evening service... 7:30pm
followed by Kiddush in Sukkah (sponsor needed) and Hakofos dancing

Shemini Atzeres | Monday 24 October, 2016
Morning service ............... 10:00am
Yizkor ............................. 11:30am
(followed by Kiddush in the Sukkah - sponsors needed)

Mincha ............................... 7:00pm
SIMCHAS TORAH SERVICE... 7:30pm
Huge Kiddush and Hakofos, dancing till late
Candle Lighting........... after 7:55pm

Simchas Torah | Tuesday 25 October, 2016
Morning service................. 10:00am
Big Kiddush 11am sponsored anonymously, Hakofos dancing, completing Torah and starting again

Late Kids Hakofos and dancing 5pm-6pm see flyer above

Mincha................................7:00pm
Yom Tov Ends..................... 7:56pm


MAZAL TOV TO OUR SIMCHAS TORAH CHOSSONIM!

Chosson Torah.................Jack Reuben
Chosson Bereshis.............Rabbi Sufrin
Chosson Maftir.................Vitali Broyda
Chosson Kol HaNe'arim.....Mike Barel
Hagbah........................... Dan Barnett
Hagbah........................... Jeremy Waine

SHABBOS PROJECT SAVE THE DATE

Friday night 11 November ......Shul service followed by dinner
Shabbos day 12 November ....Shul service followed by lunch
Shabbos afternoon ............... Activities for children
Saturday night...................... Kumzitz & music for the whole family
Nefesh Shul, 54 Roscoe Street, Bondi Beach, NSW 2026 Australia
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Thursday, October 13, 2016

Why Are We Waiving Branches?

SECOND SET OF CHASSANIM AVAILABLE see below

YOM TOV ALIYAH OR YIZKOR DONATIONS PLEASE CLICK HERE 

SHUL TONIGHT NEW SUMMER TIME 6:30PM

Question of the Week
    
Someone asked me why we wave the Lulav in six directions - right, left, forward, up, down, backward. I didn't really know how to answer. Is there a simple way to explain this?

Answer:

The four species that we bless on Sukkos correspond to the four letters in G-d's Hebrew name. Waving them in all six directions signifies our faith that G-d is everywhere. Specifically, we are saying that on every level, at every stage of life, in all that happens to us, G-d is there.

Right and left represent Chesed and Gevurah, the power of love and the power of discipline. G-d, like a parent, can be loving and can also be strict. Sometimes G-d's light shines on us and we feel close to Him, other times He seems distant, we feel left in the dark and have to find our own way through. Whether we receive G-d's closeness and love, or whether He gives us space to grow on our own, it is all coming from G-d. He knows exactly what we need, and that's what we get.

Up and down symbolize the highs and lows of life. When we feel we are on top of the world, we need to remember that G-d enabled us to get there. When we feel down in the dumps, we need to have faith that G-d is with us there. There is no success without help, and there is no failure without hope.

Forward and backward stand for the future and the past. We don't know what tomorrow holds, but we have faith that G-d will guide us through whatever lies ahead. And as for the past, all that has happened to us is a part of the plan. All our past experiences, even those that we would rather forget, made us who we are today. We are where we are now because that is exactly where G-d wants us to be. Our entire past was a lead up to this moment. G-d brought you here for a reason.

So the four species are waved around, to recognise that G-d is everywhere, in the good and the bad, in the ups and the downs, in the uncertain future and the turbulent past. And in the middle of all that is you. You are doing the waving. Because G-d will be there for you in all you do, if only you let Him in.

Good Shabbos 
Rabbi Moss

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NEFESH and JEMS are running a special late Torah reading, dancing and childrens program on Simchas Torah day, October 25, 5-6pm. 
We are offering the following honours, first come first served:
Chosson Torah $1000
Chosson Bereishis $800
Chosson Maftir $500
Chosson Kol Hanearim $360
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SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO
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Friday, 14 October 2016 | 12 Tishrei 5777
Candle Lighting ..........6:50 pm (*Earliest 5:51pm)
Mincha .......................6:15 pm
Friday Evening Service  
(NEW SUMMER TIME)..6:30-7:20 pm
Followed by Kiddush sponsored by Tom Moss, Ron Moss and Kathy Penn in honour of the yahrzeit of their father Leslie Moss, (Mordechai ben Aron Halevi) - Long Life.

Shabbos, 15 October, 2016 |13 Tishrei 5777
Chassidus Class ...............9:00 am
Shabbos Morning Service 10:00 am-12:15 pm
Children's program......... 11:00am 
Followed by Kiddush

Mincha ...........................................6:45 pm
Seudah Shlishis
Gematria and Story by Rev Amzalak 7:05 pm
Shiur: ............................................7:25 pm
Shabbos ends and Maariv................ 7:47 pm
Followed by Havdalah.

WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES
Sunday .........................8:00 am
Wed, Thurs & Fri ...........7:00 am
Latest Shema this week 9:26 am


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO
Joshua Lever .....16 Tishrei/ Tuesday 18 Oct
Cassia Partane ..18 Tishrei/ Thursday 20 Oct
Tali Whitten ......18 Tishrei/ Thursday 20 Oct
Larnce Gold .......19 Tishrei/ Friday 21 Oct

LONG LIFE TO
Tauba Tanchum for her late mother Rose Kaplan 
Rose bat Avraham .......13 Tishrei/ Saturday 15 Oct
Magda Schaffer for her late father
Chayim Ben Avraham.. 13 Tishrei/ Saturday 15 Oct
Libby Moss and Peter Irving for their late father
Henry Irving ...............20 Tishrei/ Saturday 22 Oct


HUGE THANK YOU TO RABBI SUFRIN AND ALL THE VOLUNTEERS FOR HELPING TO SETUP SHUL BEFORE THE HIGH HOLIDAYS AND PUTTING THE SUKKAH TOGETHER.

 
SUKKOS SERVICE TIMES
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Erev Sukkos | Sunday 16 October, 2016
Light Candles............. 6:51pm (*Earliest 5:52pm)
Mincha ...................... 7:00pm
Evening service ......... 7:30pm

First Day Sukkos | Monday 17 October, 2016
Morning service ................ 10:00am-12:45pm
Followed by Kiddush in the Sukkah - 
P
art sponsored anonymously, (one more part sponsor needed for $180)
Light Candles ............ after 7:48pm
Mincha ............................. 7:00pm
Evening service ................ 7:30pm

Second Day Sukkos | Tuesday 18 October, 2016
Morning service ................... 10am-12:45pm
Followed by Kiddush in the Sukkah sponsored by Harry & Sara Kornfeld in honour of the birthday of their daughter Sevilla (Tzviyah bat Sarah)- Mazal Tov!

Mincha ............................. 7:00pm
Yom Tov Ends ................... 7:49pm


CHOL HAMOED Wednesday, Thursday & Friday
Shachris........................... 7:00am


HOSHANA RABBA | Sunday 23 October, 2016
Shachris .......................... 8:00am
Candle Lighting................. 6:57pm (*Earliest 5:56pm)
Mincha ............................ 7:05pm

SHEMINI ATZERES
Yom Tov evening service... 7:30pm
followed by Kiddush in Sukkah (sponsor needed) and Hakofos dancing

Shemini Atzeres | Monday 24 October, 2016
Morning service ............... 10:00am
Yizkor ............................. 11:30am
(followed by Kiddush in the Sukkah - sponsors needed)

Mincha ............................... 7:00pm
SIMCHAS TORAH SERVICE... 7:30pm
Huge Kiddush and Hakofos dancing till late
Candle Lighting........... after 7:55pm

Simchas Torah | Tuesday 25 October, 2016
Morning service................. 10:00am
Big Kiddush 11am sponsored anonymously, Hakofos dancing, completing Torah and starting again

Late Kids Hakofos and dancing 5pm-6pm

Mincha................................7:00pm
Yom Tov Ends..................... 7:56pm


MAZAL TOV TO OUR SIMCHAS TORAH CHOSSONIM!

Chosson Torah.................Jack Reuben
Chosson Bereshis.............Rabbi Sufrin
Chosson Maftir.................Vitali Broyda
Chosson Kol HaNe'arim.....Mike Barel
Hagbah........................... Dan Barnett
Hagbah........................... Jeremy Waine

SHABBOS PROJECT SAVE THE DATE

Friday night 11 November ......Shul service followed by dinner
Shabbos day 12 November ....Shul service followed by lunch
Shabbos afternoon ............... Activities for children
Saturday night...................... Kumzitz & music for the whole family
Nefesh Shul, 54 Roscoe Street, Bondi Beach, NSW 2026 Australia
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Thursday, October 6, 2016

Does a Pregnant Woman Fast?

TONIGHT'S SERVICE NEW SUMMER TIME 6:30pm

Question of the Week
    
I am five months pregnant and was told that I definitely don't have to fast on Yom Kippur. But then someone told me that I definitely do. So what is it? Do I fast or not?

Answer:

As a mother to be, you want the best for your baby. You want to do anything possible to give your child everything he or she needs for the future. So if you can, you should at least try to fast.

This is what Jewish mothers have been doing for thousands of years. They withhold food from their unborn babies for one day, and then spend the rest of their life over-feeding them to make up for it.

Of course, if you have a specific medical condition or there are any complications with your pregnancy, you may be forbidden to fast, and a doctor and a rabbi should be consulted. But in normal circumstances, pregnancy is not a medical condition, it is a natural state, and fasting once will have no negative effect on you or the baby whatsoever. In fact, the opposite may be true.

The Talmud tells of a pregnant woman who smelt food on Yom Kippur and craved to eat it. They reminded her that it was a fast day, and she refrained. The child she bore grew to become the saintly leader Rabbi Yochanan. His greatness was partly credited to his mother's fasting even when it was not easy.

You have to be practical. Drink a lot of fluids beforehand, and rest on the day itself. If staying home in bed will make it easier, then that's what you should do. Fasting is more important than going to shul. And watch yourself as you fast. If you feel faint or lightheaded or anything unusual, you may need to break the fast. Don't be overly strict. But don't dismiss the fast entirely. Plan to complete the fast, and see how you go.

May you have an easy fast, an easy birth, and a child who will appreciate that it's worth going through momentary discomfort to uphold our eternal beliefs. 

Good Shabbos and Good Yomtov,
Rabbi Moss

Note: The above applies to a nursing woman as well. The specific laws pertaining to a woman close to her due date, in labor or immediately after childbirth vary. A competent rabbi should be consulted in all cases.


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SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO
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Friday, 7 October 2016 | 5 Tishrei 5777
Candle Lighting............................... 6:44 pm (*Earliest 5:47pm)  
Mincha............................................ 6:10 pm
Friday Evening Service 
(NEW SUMMER TIME)................ 6:30-7:20 pm
 
Shabbos, 8 October, 2016 |6 Tishrei 5777
Chassidus Class............................... 9:00 am
Shabbos Morning Service............... 10:00 am-12:15 pm
Children's program........................ 11:00am
 
Mincha.........................................   6:40 pm
Seudah Shlishis
Gematria and Story by Rev Amzalak................. 7:00 pm
Shiur:............................................................. 7:20 pm
Shabbos ends and Maariv................................. 7:41 pm
Followed by Havdalah.

YOM KIPPUR
Kol Nidrei   
Tuesday 11 October, 2016
Light Candles (fast begins) ................. 6:47pm
Evening Service: .............................. 7:00pm - 9:00pm 
Children's Program ............................ 7:00pm 
(only children booked into the program will gain entry)
 
Yom Kippur Day   
Wednesday 12 October, 2016
Morning Service: .............................. 9:30am
Children's Program, ages 0-12 yrs: ...... 10:30am 
(only children booked into the program will gain entry)
Yizkor: ............................................ 12:15pm
Mincha: ........................................... 5:30pm
Neilah: ............................................ 6:30pm
Final Shofar:..................................... 7:44pm
Yom Tov and Fast ends:..................... 7:44pm
Breaking of the fast sponsored in loving memory of Abdulla Ben Miriam A"H, 9 Tishrei 5769 לעלוי נשמת עבדאללה בן מרים ע״ה ט׳ תשרי תשס"ט
 
WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES
Sunday ........................................... 8:00 am
Mon, Tues & Thurs, Fri...................... 7:00 am
Latest Shema this week................... 9:31 am
 
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO
William Feuermann............. 7 Tishrei/ Sunday 9 October
Rabbi Moss.......................... 7 Tishrei/ Sunday 9 October
Luke Lipovic........................ 7 Tishrei/ Sunday 9 October
Nicola Deall......................... 9 Tishrei/ Tuesday 11 October
Yvonne Coburn................... 11 Tishrei/ Thursday 13 October
Amielle Hedges....................11 Tishrei/ Thursday 13 October
 
LONG LIFE TO
Libby Moss and Peter Irving for their great-grandmother Leah Bernhardt... 6 Tishrei/ Saturday 8 Oct
Tauba Tanchum for her late mother Rose Kaplan, Rose bat Avraham........ 13 Tishrei/ Saturday 15 October
Magda Schaffer for her late father Chayim Ben Avraham ......................... 13 Tishrei/ Saturday 15 October
 

Nefesh Shul, 54 Roscoe Street, Bondi Beach, NSW 2026 Australia
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