Thursday, February 25, 2021

What Makes an Antisemite?

Question of the Week:

It seems like antisemitism is everywhere these days, and almost becoming acceptable again. Why do so many people hate Jews? Why is antisemitism still flourishing today, even in modern society? And what can we do about it?

Answer: 

The deepest analysis of antisemitism can be found in a deceptively simple Talmudic passage. It is discussing the story of Purim. And its wisdom rings true until today. 

Haman was an antisemitic minister in ancient Persia who wanted to see the Jews annihilated. He approached King Achashverosh and offered to pay him a hefty sum in return for permission to fulfill his vile wish to kill the Jews. The King responded, "Keep your money and do with the Jews what you want!"

The Talmud explains the king's response with a parable:

A farmer had a problem. There was a big mound of dirt in the middle of his field. His neighbour had a different problem, he had a ditch in the middle of his field. The owner of the ditch saw the mound and thought, "I would pay money for his mound to fill my ditch." The owner of the mound thought, "I would pay money to get rid of my mound in his ditch." The two finally met, and the ditch owner asked to buy the mound. The mound owner said, "Please take it for free!" 

So too, when Haman offered to pay the king to rid his kingdom of Jews, the king said go ahead! No need to pay. Achashverosh saw the Jews as a mound sticking out in his kingdom. But what Haman saw was a hollow ditch, a deep hole. 

And that is the story of antisemitism.

Achashverosh and Haman represent two layers of hatred, the conscious and the subconscious. On the surface, antisemites hate Jews because they are a mound. But deep down, they hate Jews because they hate the ditch. 

Antisemites make all types of contradictory statements about why they hate Jews. Jews are rich and own everything, or Jews are poor and stateless; they are religious extremists or they are secular cosmopolitans; they assimilate or they stay separate. Jew-haters say, "Go back to Israel!" and they say, "Get out of Palestine!" They say, "The Nazis should have finished the job" and they say, "The Holocaust never happened."

All of these accusations are really saying the same thing: the Jews are a mound in our field. You are in the way. You don't belong here. You are an obstacle, an eye-sore, a blot on humanity. But these are all just pretexts and excuses. None of these is the real reason for antisemitism. The true cause of antisemitism is not the mound, it is the ditch. 

At their core, those who hate others actually hate themselves. Beneath their macho exterior lies a profound emptiness, a vacuous hole in their soul. They subconsciously sense that their ideology is false, their beliefs empty, their lives void of meaning. And when you are empty, you hate those who are full. When you lack meaning, you envy those who have it. And there is no people that represent higher purpose and eternal truth more than the Jewish people.

This is why there are antisemites who have never even met a Jew. It's nothing personal. Their hatred is a symptom of their anger at themselves, which they refuse to face, so they project it on an other. And the ultimate other is the Jew, the eternal Jew who has watched civilisations come and go, who has outlived all the ditch owners that tried to wipe him out. 

In every generation there are evil ideologies. They take on various facades, but they share one common feature, they all hate the Jews. If you want to know which ideology is the destructive force of the age, look at the ones that embrace antisemitism. No matter how cultured and intelligent they look, at their core lies a nihilistic ditch, and they are dangerous. 

So what should Jews do about antisemitism? What can anyone do about someone else's existential emptiness? 

We take our cues from the Purim story. The Jews of the time, under threat of annihilation, did not become less Jewish, but more so. We don't fight emptiness by becoming more empty, and we don't make someone else's problem into our problem. In the face of irrational hate, we stay proudly and defiantly Jewish, trusting in G-d and loyal to our people. 

But the Jews of Persia also took political and military measures to protect themselves. Because while we hope that all those haters will one day find some meaning to fill their void, we will not sit by and be victims of those who haven't. 

Haman never filled his ditch. But he gave us Purim. And this year like every year, Jewish children will celebrate and make noise when they hear Haman's name read in the Megillah. Because we won't be swallowed into somebody else's dark ditch. We will continue to fight evil and emptiness, by filling the world with light.

Happy Purim and Good Shabbos, 
Rabbi Moss 

Sources:
Talmud Megillah 14a
The Rebbe, Sichos Kodesh Purim 5725 

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Thursday, February 18, 2021

Is It Ever Ok to Hide Being Jewish?

Question of the Week

I am having a debate with a friend. He has a good job in a big company, but he has not told them he is Jewish. He thinks his boss is an anti-semite, and by hiding his Jewishness he is able to get away with things. Like Friday afternoons the staff all go out for a drink, and he leaves early. He says it's because he doesn't drink alcohol, so they let him off the hook. If he said it was for Shabbos they wouldn't accept it. I just think it's wrong to hide who you are just to keep your job. Don't you agree?

Answer:

As a rabbi, I have never had to hide my Jewishness to keep my job. That probably wouldn't work out so well.

But I'm not sure that is what your friend is doing either. Perhaps he is hiding his Jewishness not to keep his job, but to keep his Jewishness. There could be a clear precedent for that. 

Esther is the hero of the Purim story. She was a good Jewish girl who was forcibly taken to be queen by the Persian tyrant Achashverosh. Her cousin Mordechai, head rabbi of his time, instructed her not to tell anyone in the palace that she was Jewish.

Why did he tell her to do that?  Some suggest that Mordechai wanted Esther to hide being Jewish in order to protect her position as queen. But this doesn't fit the story. Esther did everything she could not to have to marry this heathen buffoon of a dictator. If saying that she was Jewish would disqualify her from being queen, that would be good news, not bad. 

Rather, Mordechai knew that she would never be allowed to openly observe Judaism in the palace. As long as no one knew that she was Jewish, she could surreptitiously keep her religion and no one would notice.

Esther couldn't ask to be served only kosher food. So she claimed that she was on a new radical diet and only ate seeds and beans. This she could get away with. She couldn't be seen to be observing Shabbos, so she requested that seven different maids serve her each day of the week. That way she could keep Shabbos without anyone noticing that her habits were different from one day to the next. Her weekday maids were never there to see that she did no work on Shabbos, and her Shabbos maid, who only saw her on Shabbos, thought she was just a spoiled non-Jewish princess who never lifted a finger. 

Esther managed to keep Judaism under the very noses of those who would not have tolerated it. She is a precedent for all those Jews throughout the ages who were forced to hide their identity in order to preserve it. Perhaps your friend is in the same predicament. It would be easy to tell him that he should either come clean about his Jewishness or get another job. But maybe, like Esther, he doesn't have that choice. 

But Esther also teaches us that this charade can't go on forever. When a decree was signed by the king to annihilate the Jewish people, that was Esther's cue. Mordechai told her, "Maybe this is why you ended up as queen in the first place - to save your people!" She could hide no longer. She took off her mask and revealed her true identity. Her single act of bravery saved the Jewish nation.

There comes a time when a Jew has to state openly and proudly who they are.  That time will come for your friend too. He may be able to fly beneath the radar for a while. As long as he is still being true to who he is, it may serve him better to keep his identity to himself.

But there will be a moment, when someone makes a snide remark about Jews, or when a job candidate is rejected just for being Jewish, or when his coworkers are piling scorn on Israel for its so-called crimes. At that time, keeping silent would mean not being true to who he is. That's when he will do what Esther did. He will say, "I am a Jew, and I will stand for my people." Maybe this is why he ended up in that job in the first place. 

Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

Sources:
Ibn Ezra on Megillas Esther 2:9
Pirkei deRabbi Eliezer chap. 49
Talmud Megillah 13a
R' Yonasan Eibeschutz, Yaaros Devash Chelek 2 Drush 2

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Saturday 20 February – 8 Adar
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Thursday, February 11, 2021

The Walk of Life

Question of the Week

I have been sitting Shiva after the passing of my father. Because of the circumstances no one is able to visit, but I have appreciated the calls and messages. As painful as it all is, I have to say that I am a little reluctant to leave this bubble. I wanted to know, what happens on the last day? How do I formally end Shiva? Do I just change clothes and that's it?

Answer:

You have not been sitting alone. Your father's soul is next to you.

The Jewish mystics teach that in the early days after death, the soul is not yet ready to move on from this world. During the seven days of mourning, the soul of the departed hovers around the Shiva house. Over the course of the week, the soul gradually starts to let go of its place in the physical realm. Then, at the end of the Shiva, the soul floats away to find its place of rest.

The journey of the soul finding rest closely mirrors the journey of the mourners coming to terms with the loss. The seven days of mourning allow the surviving relatives to experience the grief, face the loss and come to some level of acceptance that things will never be the same. It is a time to acclimatise to the major adjustment in your reality. It takes a week for that to just sink in. Then starts the long and slow process of healing and moving forward. 

On the morning of the seventh day, there is a custom for mourners to conclude the Shiva by going for a walk around the block. This serves a dual purpose, for the mourners and for the departed soul.

For the mourners, it is a step back into the outside world. They observe that life has gone on, the world is going about its business, and so must we all. As hard as it may be, and though the pain will not just disappear, we must walk out of Shiva and into the world. We honour the dead by going back to our lives.

But there is another meaning behind the walk around the block. We are accomanying the soul of the departed on its onward journey. They will always be watching over us, and their presence will always be felt, but we need to let them go to higher places. As they move to their next stage, so do we.

You end Shiva by going for a walk. May you find comfort and strength on that path, and may your father's soul find peace. 

Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

Sources:
Taamei Mitzvos Arizal Vayechi
Darkei Chesed 25:11

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Thursday, February 4, 2021

What Worries You the Most?

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Question of the Week

I've got a question for you from my kids. I'd love a simple answer they can understand but also has something deep to it:
Why do we cover our eyes when we say the Shema prayer?

Answer:

When we say Shema, we are declaring that Hashem is one. This means that there is only one G-d, and He is the source of all. E verything in the world, and everything that happens, is from Hashem.

It is not that good things come from Hashem, and bad things come from some other evil source, like the Devil, or Satan, or Big Tech. Hashem is one, the only one, and all comes from Him.

And Hashem is good. So if everything comes from Hashem, and Hashem is good, then everything that happens must be good. 

The problem is, we don't see it that way. From our limited human  perspective , we view some things as good because they feel good, and other things seem bad to us because we feel pain. 

But there is a bigger picture, and in that picture even the things that hurt are good for us. We grow from hard times. We become more sensitive and deeper from challenges. We are given opportunities to give and to love specifically due to the problems in the world. 

Sometimes we see the good in hard times, and sometimes we don't. But faith means we don't trust our superficial view, we know that there is a deeper story going on.

And so we cover our eyes when we say the Shema. We are saying that there is so much more to life than what our limited vision allows us to see. We can't always see the good with our eyes, but we can see it with our soul. 

Here's a little visualisation you can try with your kids. Before saying the Shema, stop and think about something that is worrying you. Now cover your eyes and look again, not with your eyes but with your soul. See that this too comes from Hashem. Hashem is good, so all will be good. As you say the Shema, feel the worry melt away in the light of faith. The problem may not disappear, but the worry will. Now you have some clarity, you can face your problems. With your eyes closed you can see much better. 

Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

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Saturday 6 February – 24 Shevat 
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CONDOLENCES
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Amiell Gold... 28 Shevat/Wednesday 10 February
Dylan Glick... 28 Shevat/Wednesday 10 February
Michaela Waine... 28 Shevat/Wednesday 10 February
Robert Dabscheck... 29 Shevat/Thursday 11 February
Linda Isdale... 29 Shevat/Thursday 11 February
Ron Lazarus... 30 Shevat/Friday 12 February
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LONG LIFE FOR THE FOLLOWING YORTZHEITS
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