Thursday, December 31, 2020

Are Spiritual Healers Kosher?

Question of the Week:

What's the Jewish position on spiritual healing? I have come across an eastern treatment that looks amazing. It requires me to connect to particular angelic forces and recite incantations in order to activate the healing. As a Jew is there any issue in utilising these healing practices?

Answer:

Spirituality and healing are deeply intertwined. Modern medicine recognises the power of the mind to help heal the body, and the impact of a patient's spiritual state on the healing process. Any attempt to improve our physical health should be coupled with an upgrade in our spiritual health. On many levels, the body and soul are in parallel.

A medical treatment will only be effective if it is compatible with the patient. Factors such as blood type, genetic make-up, allergies and family history need to be taken into account when deciding whether a particular treatment is appropriate for a particular person. A practitioner would be derelict in their duty if they did not first investigate the patient's background before prescribing a mode of treatment.

The same applies to spiritual remedies. Your soul's family history must be taken into account before embarking on any spiritual path. If your soul make up is Jewish, it needs Jewish spirituality to be healthy.

Physical healing practices can be learned from any culture. Stretches and exercises, breathing and relaxation techniques, herbal remedies and natural medicines, if they have been tried and tested and pose no danger, may be helpful, no matter where in the world they come from. These practices don't need to come from a Jewish source in order to heal a Jewish body.

But once a remedy crosses over into the spiritual realm, requiring us to connect with energies, pray to higher beings, focus on names of angels or channel invisible powers, then we must beware. The Jewish soul is allergic to idolatry. We have only one G-d, and we have the Torah as our spiritual health manual. If it doesn't jive with Torah, then it is not compatible with our family history. 

A healthy organism is one connected to its roots. Study Torah and plug in to your soul's source. You need it for your health. Your doctor doesn't have to be Jewish. Your spirituality does.

Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

Note: Some remedies contain non-kosher ingredients. Some spiritual energies are idolatrous and some are not. These issues should be discussed with a competent halachic authority on a case by case basis.

Source:
See Igros Kodesh Volume 10 p38


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Thursday, December 24, 2020

Aren't I Jewish Enough Already?

Reminder: Fast of the Tenth of Teves ends tonight @ 8:37pm (Sydney time)
Recite Friday Night Kiddush and commence meal only after this time 

Question of the Week:

I have to admit, I am angry. I was brought up Jewish, attended a Jewish school, and have only known Judaism as my religion. Now I am told I have to convert, because my mother never formally became Jewish. Isn't it a little unfair that all my life I was more Jewish than my friends, was subjected to anti-Semitism, and then I am told I need to convert?

Answer:

I completely understand your frustration. It can't be easy to hear that you need to convert to your own religion. But please don't take it personally. This is not a reflection on you. The entire Jewish nation went through exactly what you are going through now.

After leaving Egypt, where they suffered as slaves and were tormented for being Jewish, the Israelites reached Mount Sinai. There they were told they had to formally accept the Torah, and convert to Judaism by immersing in a mikvah.

They could've had the same complaint as yours. We've always been Jewish, we have even suffered for it, and now we're told we need to become Jewish.

Indeed they were already Jewish in the ethnic sense, but they had not yet become Jewish in the religious sense. They were born into the Jewish clan, but they had not yet committed to the Jewish mission. Only by sincerely accepting the Torah did they take on the complete Jewish identity in body and soul.

The Israelites of old had a moment of truth. Am I ready to stand before G-d and commit myself to being Jewish? Not just for a day or a week or a year. Not just for my lifetime. For generations. And they said yes.

That power of that moment still reverberates to this day. All Jews alive today are descended from a mother who converted to Judaism, who took that plunge, either at Mount Sinai or sometime since then.

Now you have your moment of truth. You can be culturally and ethnically Jewish, as you already are. Or you can stand at your own Sinai and say yes to G-d.

Put aside the emotion and take this decision seriously. If you don't go ahead, you leave things hanging for your children and theirs. But if you do it, your commitment is forever, for all generations, once and for all.

Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

Sources: 
See Exodus 19:10, Rambam Hilchos Issurei Biah 13

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Saturday 26 December – 11 Teves 
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Kids Program....... 10:30am 
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Mincha......................... 7:50pm
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Shai Behrman... 17 Tevet/Friday 1 January
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HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
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Sarah & Benjy Reid... 12 Tevet/Sunday 27 December
Greg & Leah Weinstein... 13 Tevet/Monday 28 December
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Jessie Stanley... 13 Teves/ Monday 28 December

Theresa Bengis for her late father 
Yosef ben Emmanuel... 13 Tevet/Monday 28 December

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Chaim ben Moshe... 13 Tevet/Monday 28 December

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Thursday, December 17, 2020

How To Heal A Broken Heart

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Question of the Week

This has been my worst Chanukah ever. My relationship has ended and I am alone again. I really trusted this time, and I was let down. I don't think I can go through this any more. How many times can a heart be broken before you just say enough!?

Answer:

I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this pain. Just don't give up now. It's Chanukah. And the story of Chanukah is a beginner's manual on surviving heartbreak.

I'm sure you are familiar with the tale. The Syrian-Greeks, who had conquered Israel and contaminated the Temple, had just been defeated by the Jewish rebels called the Maccabees. The victorious Jews went about rededicating the Temple, but could not find any pure olive oil with which to light the Temple candles. The Greeks had systematically defiled all the oil they could find.

But the Jews kept looking. It was almost as if they knew that they would find something. And they did. One jar of oil, pure and untouched, lay hidden in the Temple. The Maccabees joyously lit the candles, although aware that the oil was only enough for one night. But it lasted eight days, exactly enough time to produce new pure oil. 

That jar of oil represents the unbreakable spirit at the core of every person. You have a soul, a divine spark, a holy light, which is untouchable, cannot be harmed, its light cannot be dimmed. People can hurt you, but they can't extinguish your spark. Now is when you need to find that spark. 

Your sanctuary has been contaminated, your heart broken and your trust shattered. You have every right to be angry at the world, to close up your emotions and shrivel into a lonely depression. But then the world will miss out on your light.

Follow the lead of the Maccabees. Search until you find that unbreakable essence at your core. If all you see is brokenness, keep looking until you find your wholesomeness. It is there. It is always there. Believe that you can love and trust again. Pray for your hidden jar of hope to surface. Once it does, it will shine long enough for your heart to heal. 

Good Shabbos and Happy Chanukah,
Rabbi Moss

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Elana & Matthew Jones and their families on Eli's Bar Mitzvah this Shabbos.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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Gavi Sufrin... 6 Tevet/Monday 21 December
Willow Glick... 9 Tevet/Thursday 24 December

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
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Dale & Tal Levin... 7 Tevet/Tuesday 22 Dec
Anthony & Rebecca Tockar... 8 Tevet/Wed 23 Dec
Gavin & Beatrish Gordon... 9 Tevet/Thursday 24 Dec

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Simcha bat Aharon... 4 Tevet/Saturday 19 December

Yvonne Coburn & William Feuermann for their late mother Vera Rachel Feuermann
Rachel bat Zvi... 7 Tevet/Tuesday 22 December

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Thursday, December 10, 2020

My Head is Spinning

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Question of the Week:

We are having a cultural day at work where people share their religious customs. I have three minutes to talk about Chanukah and wanted to talk about the dreidel (someone else is speaking about the Menorah). Is there a deeper meaning to spinning the dreidel on Chanukah that I could easily present? 

Answer:

Take a dreidel and spin it. Let everyone watch. It's fascinating. You never know which side it will land on. It could fall on the Gimmel, which means you win all, or the Shin, which means you lose all. It may land on Heh, and you win half the pot. And sometimes it ends up on Nun, and nothing happens. 

It all seems totally random. But really it isn't. Every spin has an exact amount of kinetic energy to cause a measured number of turns. The table surface provides an exact amount of friction, and the air pushes the dreidel in a certain way, so it falls exactly as it is supposed to. Nothing is left to chance. There is an exact science to the spin. We just don't get it. 

Life is like that. It may seem random sometimes. Things just happen, you win or you lose, it falls this way or that for no apparent reason. But that is just how it seems. There is a divine hand spinning the world. Every turn is deliberate, every experience you have is supposed to happen, and whether you win or lose, there is a reason behind it.

There are no self-spinning dreidels. There is always a hand behind the spin. Whatever life deals you, whether a nothing Nun, a gainful Gimmel, and halfway Heh or a shameful Shin, that's exactly where you are meant to be.

When you put the four letters of the dreidel together, they stand for "Nes Gadol Haya Sham" - a great miracle happened there. Because when you piece together all the ups and downs of your life into one whole picture, you must admit, it is a miracle you are here.

Good Shabbos and Happy Chanukah,
Rabbi Moss

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MAZAL TOV
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Amber Lessem 3 Tevet/Friday 18 December

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
Gary & Karen Lazarus... 26 Kislev/Saturday 12 December
Julia & Jarred Rubin... 27 Kislev/Sunday 13 December
Rachael & Brett Kaplan... 29 Kislev/Tuesday 15 December
Adam & Jodi Karpas... 29 Kislev/Tuesday 15 December
Jack & Leyat Reuben... 2 Tevet/Thursday 17 December
Lina & Richie Barel... 3 Tevet/Friday 18 December

LONG LIFE FOR THE FOLLOWING YORTZHEITS
Reverend Amzalak for his late brother Avraham ben Yitzchak... 28 Kislev /Monday 14 December
Ruth Jacobs for her late mother Karoline Sukiennik, Kreindel bat Yaacov... 2 Tevet/Thursday 17 December
Gavin Krawchuk for his late grandfather David Sandler, David ben Mordechai... 3 Tevet/Friday 18 December

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Thursday, December 3, 2020

Is Someone Controlling Your Mind?

Question of the Week

I have been studying the Book of Tanya and find it fascinating. But I am stuck on one idea expressed there. Tanya says that we can control our behaviour, which includes our thoughts, speech and action. I don't agree. We can usually control what we do, and also what we say. But can we control what we think? I can't help what pops into my head!
(just resending this question I wrote to you two weeks ago. I didn't hear back so maybe you didn't receive it the first time?)

Answer:

Apologies for not responding sooner to your message. I actually did receive it the first time. But I ignored it. I didn't even open it. And it was deliberate. 

I decide which messages I open, and which I don't. Just because an alert pops up on my screen does not mean I have to react to it. I may not be able to control the messages that arrive in my inbox, but I can certainly control whether or not I open them. And I didn't open yours. 

My not answering your question is the answer to your question. You may not be able to control the thoughts that pop into your head. But you most certainly can control your reaction to them. If an inappropriate thought enters your mind, you have the choice to entertain it or reject it.

And that is the challenge we are given, to take the reigns of our brains and push away negative thinking. When you reject a bad thought, you don't allow it to become yours, you don't identify it. And each time you do, you become the master of your inbox.

Unless you are a very holy person, you will experience bad thoughts on a regular basis. Sometimes they will be about yourself - "I am a loser, I will never accomplish anything." Sometimes they will be about others - "I could kill that guy". Some of those thoughts may be pretty ugly.  You have no power to stop them flashing through your mind. But you do have the choice to leave those thoughts unopened.

Bad thoughts popping up into your head? That's normal. Delete and go to next message. 

Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

Source:
Tanya Chapter 12

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Evening Service ...6:30-7:20pm
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Saturday 5 December – 19 Kislev 
Morning Service.... 10:00am-12:20pm
Kids Program ........10:30am 
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Mincha .........................7:35pm
Shabbos ends & Maariv ..8:38pm
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CONDOLENCES TO
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Brian Arenstein and family on the passing of his father Itz Arenstein, Aharon ben Shmuel.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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Levi Diamond ...24 Kislev/Thursday 10 November
Jonah Ink ........25 Kislev/Friday 11 November

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
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Darryn & Romi Taitz... 21 Kislev/Monday 7 Dec
Jeremy & Nikki Kinstlinger... 22 Kislev/Tuesday 8 Dec 
Jonathan & Joanne Capal... 24 Kislev/Thursday 10 Dec

LONG LIFE FOR THE FOLLOWING YORTZHEITS
Nick Hedges for his late grandfather Nicolas Stark,
Menashe ben Yitzchak... 20 Kislev/Sunday 6 December

Linda Isdale for her late father Lionel Eric Vilensky
Elia Leib... 23 Kislev/Wednesday 9 December

Jacqueline Meyer for her late grandfather Meir Fiszhalter
Meir Ben Avraham... 24 Kislev/10 December

Rene Bermeister for her late mother
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