A moment of confusion that made sense only decades later
Do you believe in coincidences? Do you think the world is run by random forces, without any meaning or purpose? Then please read this.
Exactly 28 years ago, in the Hebrew month of Kislev, of the year 5749 (1988), R' Aron Amzalak of Sydney Australia was in New York. He had come for the engagement of his daughter Miriam to a young man from Venezuela, Moshe Moskowitz.
On the day they got engaged, Thursday 22 November, Amzalak went to inform the Rebbe of the good news. Thousands of people of all walks of life would line up to see the Rebbe, receive a blessing and a dollar to distribute to charity. In the brief moment that each person had with the Rebbe they could ask a quick question or make a short request, and the Rebbe would respond, as the line of people moved forward and the next person would have their turn.
As Amzalak comes before the Rebbe he tells him with a beaming smile, "My daughter became a Kallah (a bride) today." The Rebbe gives him a dollar and blesses him that the wedding should take place at an auspicious time.
R' Aron Amzalak telling the Rebbe his good news
Amzalak continues walking and the next person in line, R' Mendel Itkin of Los Angeles, comes before the Rebbe. But the Rebbe calls Amzalak to come back to him. He is holding another dollar that he wishes to give Amzalak in honour of his daughter's engagement. But Amzalak does not hear this, and so there is a moment of confusion: the Rebbe is standing with dollar in hand, the line has stopped, Mendel Itkin is waiting in limbo, watching the Rebbe and trying to call Amzalak back.
R' Mendel Itkin takes the "wrong" dollar
In the commotion, the dollar that was going to be for Amzalak is given to Itkin instead. A moment later Amzalak returns to the Rebbe, who gives him another dollar, saying "This is for the bride." Then the Rebbe takes another dollar and says to Amzalak, "For the groom." But before giving the dollar to Amzalak, the Rebbe takes yet another dollar and gives both to Amzalak, asking him, "Kest?" a Yiddish word that means "dowry," financial support that a father-in-law provides his son-in-law.
Amzalak smiles and receives these additional two dollars, then moves on. At this point the Rebbe seems to laugh and say, "He doesn't know what kest means!"
Amzalak receives two more dollars
What is going on here? The Rebbe gave Amzalak four dollars, one for himself, one for his daughter, and two for his son-in-law. And a fifth dollar that the Rebbe had intended to give to Amzalak instead went to some guy from Los Angeles.
This mysterious exchange makes sense when we fast-forward 13 years. In 2001 that guy from Los Angeles, Mendel Itkin, married Amzalak's other daughter Aviva.
So the dollar that was meant for Amzalak's daughter went to his other daughter's future husband, who out of the thousands of people there that day just happened to be next in line. And the extra dollar "for the groom" was because another groom was being arranged for the Amzalak family that day.
And the Rebbe can't help laughing, because indeed, at the time nobody knew what this all meant.
But there's more. This is all captured on video (see full video below). But the characters in the story knew nothing about it until two weeks ago. In yet another one of those so-called accidents, someone stumbled upon the video on Youtube, recognized Amzalak and sent it to him. The family was amazed to see that future father-in-law and son-in-law had stood next to each other without knowing it, and the Rebbe had made the match so many years in advance.
And the timing of this discovery couldn't have been better. Because Mendel Itkin is right now battling for his life with a terrible illness. He needs our urgent prayers. Just when he needs it the most, he received that dollar and blessing from the Rebbe all over again. And we have all received a reminder that there are no accidents.
Please pray for the speedy recovery of Menachem Mendel ben Sima Chasya