Meditating on your Belly Button

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Question of the Week:   Can you explain my children to me? I have dedicated my life to looking after their every need. But if I ask one of them to get me a glass of water they moan and groan as if I have asked them to run a marathon for me. Why is it that one parent can raise four kids, but four kids can't look after one parent?   Answer:   We are all descendants of Adam and Eve, the first human beings. We have inherited from them the basic ingredients of human nature.   One thing made Adam and Eve very different to the rest of us. They didn't have parents. They were created as adults by G-d, not born as babies to parents. They had no umbilical cords. They probably didn't even have belly buttons.   We on the other hand do have parents. And we inherit their genes, all the way back to Adam and Eve. That's why the desire to look after our children is human nature, but looking after our parents (and our belly buttons) are skills that don't come naturally. Adam and Eve knew how to parent, but they never knew how to treat a parent. This is a skill that we need to learn.   You have indeed provided your children with so much. You drive them to and from school, you feed them well, and buy them everything they ask for. But all this is not enough. You need to give them a moral code.   If children are taught to just follow their heart and trust their instincts, then they will do just that. Their instincts tell them to care for themselves and their young, but not their parents.   On the other hand, if we teach our children that they are moral beings, who can use their free choice to go beyond their genetic programming, they can do what is right rather than what feels right, and what is good rather than what feels good. This means honouring the people who gave you your existence, your parents and the generations past.   Teach your children who they really are. We are not just genes wearing jeans. We are ethical beings with a belly button.   Good Shabbos, Rabbi Moss To subscribe CLICK HERE or email rabbimoss@nefesh.com.au    SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Friday, 17 March, 2017 | 19 Adar 5777 Candle Lighting............. 6:53 pm (*Earliest 5:58pm)   Mincha......................... 6:15 pm Friday Evening Service... 6:30 pm Followed by Salmon and Scotch Kiddush sponsored by Daniel and Tegan Barnett. Shabbos, 18 March, 2017 |20 Adar 5777 Chassidus Class............................ 9:00 am Children's program....................... 11:00 am Shabbos Morning Service .............. 10:00am- 12:20 pm   Followed by Kiddush sponsored by Allen & Jacqui Rosenberg in honour of their wedding anniversary- Mazal Tov! Mincha followed by Seudah Shlishis ...   6:45 pm Gematria and story by Rev Amzalak....... 7:05 pm Shiur: The Lost Haggadah.....................7:25pm Shabbos ends and Maariv.................... 7:46 pm Followed by Havdalah   WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES Mon- Fri........................... 7:00 am Latest Shema this week....... 9:57 am   WEEKDAY CLASSES Monday Chassidus Class ..... 8:00-8:45 am   HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Melanie Schwartz.......... 22 Adar/ Monday 20 March Levi Yitzchak Lowinger... 23 Adar/ Tuesday 21 March Vanessa Creighton......... 24 Adar/ Wednesday 22 March Jojo Reuben.................. 27 Adar/ Saturday 25 March   HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO Danny & Romy Lessem...... 22 Adar / Monday 20 March Kevin & Valerie Smaller..... 23 Adar / Tuesday 21 March Barry & Taryn Glick ......... 24 Adar / Wednesday 22 March Allen & Jacqui Rosenberg.. 24 Adar / Wed 22 March Sarah & Matt Michael ....... 24 Adar / Wednesday 22 March   CONDOLENCES TO Gilda Cohen-Shapiro and entire Cohen family on the passing of their mother Hessie Cohen, Hessie Bat Irla A"H in South Africa   LONG LIFE TO Magda Schaffer for her late mother Yittel bat Malka....... 21 Adar/ Sunday 19 March Michael Franks for his late father Leopald Franks  Ephraim ben Shlomo................................................ 22 Adar/ Monday 20 March William Feuermann for his late father Felix Feuermann  Zelig Ben Gitel HaLevi.............................................. 27 Adar/ Saturday 25 March Gavin Krawchuk for his late grandfather Sam Krawchuk  Shlomo ben Eliezer Mendel ......................................27 Adar /Saturday 25 March

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Can Intermarriage be a Good Thing?

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CLICK FLYER TO BOOK NOW Question of the Week:     I have always felt an affinity to Queen Esther from the Purim story. Just like me, she married a non-Jew. And because of it she saved the Jewish people. Isn't the message that intermarriage can be good for the Jews?   Answer:   Esther is a tragic hero. Unlike the common misconception, she was not happy to be queen. She was dragged away from her family and people, against her will, and forced to marry a grotesque and uncouth tyrant, the king of Persia, Achashverosh.   This was no romantic courtship. Having executed his previous queen for not obeying his wishes, Achashverosh ordered that every woman in the kingdom present herself before him. Esther, a sweet Jewish girl, was deemed the most beautiful candidate, and so she was taken to the king's palace. She had no choice. To resist meant death.   When an evil decree was made to annihilate the Jewish nation throughout the kingdom, Esther used her position to beg for the salvation of her people. She succeeded, and from there we have the festival of Purim. But there was no happy ending for her. The Jews celebrated their victory in the streets, but Esther was stuck in the palace. She remained chained to her despotic husband till the end.   Esther is not a model of intermarriage. She had no choice. But if you would like to take a lesson from Esther's life, perhaps it is this: Being married to a non-Jew in no way diminishes your responsibility to your people. Esther's marital situation was never used as an excuse for her to weaken her ties to Judaism. She kept kosher, she kept Shabbos, and she remained a loyal Jew her entire life.   A Jew, no matter how far they think they have strayed, remains a Jew. All the tasks and obligations expected of a Jew apply to you. The fact that you don't observe one law - the law forbidding intermarriage - does not exempt you from observing all the others. And it does not take away your essential identity. You are a Jew and always will be.   Intermarriage almost always leads to a weakening of Jewish connection, and that is never good for the Jews. But Esther was good for the Jews, because despite her circumstances, she never gave up her Jewishness, and did her part for her people. You can too.   Good Shabbos and Happy Purim, Rabbi Moss   To subscribe CLICK HERE or email rabbimoss@nefesh.com.au  AUDIO CLASSES: Why Did Mordechai Tell Esther to Hide Her Jewishness? A Purim Party that went wrong...or did it? BOOKINGS CLOSED SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Friday, 10 March, 2017 | 12 Adar 5777 Candle Lighting............ 7:02 pm (*Earliest 6:05pm)   Mincha........................ 6:10 pm Friday Evening Service... 6:30 pm Followed by Kiddush Shabbos, 11 March, 2017 |13 Adar 5777 Chassidus Class................ 9:00 am Children's program........... 11:00am Shabbos Morning Service..  10:00am- 12:20pm  VERY IMPORTANT Torah reading: Parshas Zachor remembering Amalek, it is a mitzvah for all to hear this reading 11am this Shabbos   Followed by Kiddush sponsored by Israel Barukh in honour of the yartzeit of his father Moshe Barukh- Long Life. Early Mincha after Kiddush ...1:35 pm  Shabbos ends....... 7:56 pm SAY "BARUCH HAMAVDIL BEN CHODESH LECHOL" and then you can do weekday activities Maariv & Megillah Reading (in fancy dress).....8:30 pm   Purim Day Sunday 12 March, 2017 | 14 Adar Shachris and Megillah reading ..........8:00 am Second Megillah reading.................10:00 am Kid Friendly Megillah reading at Purim Playland............................11:30am Late Megillah reading ........... ..........6:00 pm followed by Studio 54 Purim Party .....6:45 pm Purim L'Chaim sponsored by Jack Reuben in honour of his recent birthday- and dessert sponsored by the Kessel's in honour of Keshet's big birthday -  Mazal Tov!   WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES Mon- Fri................................. 7:00 am Latest Shema this week............ 9:55 am WEEKDAY CLASSES (No Monday Chassidus Class this week only) MAZEL TOV TO Gilda Cohen-Shapira on the birth of her granddaughter, born to Natalia Wise and Robert Beenstock, in London. Mazel tov to Gilda and Jon. Adam and Taryn Burland on the birth and bris of their son Ben.   HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Vicki Lever............ 12 Adar/ Friday 10 March Lisa Peles.............. 12 Adar/ Friday 10 March Adam Ensly........... 13 Adar/ Saturday 11 March Keshet Kessel........ 14 Adar/ Sunday 12 March David Redelman..... 16 Adar/ Tuesday 14 March Ruth Cromer......... 17 Adar/ Wednesday 15 March Russell Klein......... 19 Adar/ Friday 17 March   HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO Leah & David Dennes...... 17 Adar/ Wednesday 15 March   LONG LIFE TO Paul Ereira for his late mother Ida Ereira, Ida Bas Mordechai....... 16 Adar/ Tuesday 14 March Elana Castle for her late grandfather David Freed David ben Micha........ 17 Adar /Wednesday 15 March CORRECTION Lior Freedman's birthday is 3 Av, not 2 Adar. We apologise for this mistake.

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"Do You Love Me?"

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Question of the Week:    I have come to shul a few times now and quite enjoy it, but I have an issue with some of the prayers. I feel like a liar saying things when I don't know if I believe in them. How can I exclaim, "love G-d with all your heart" when I am not sure He even exists?   Answer:   You have been married a few years now, and I am sure that you love your wife dearly. But have you ever woken up one morning with a sense that you've lost that loving feeling?   Perhaps after a moment of tension between you, or maybe you have been feeling down for other reasons, or for no apparent reason at all, you just feel that your heart is cold and the love you once felt has disappeared.   What if, just at that moment, your wife asked you, "Do you love me?"   What should you answer?   Should you be honest and say, "Well, I'm not sure. I don't feel it right now..."?   Not if you want to stay married.   You should tell her confidently and sincerely, "Of course I love you!" And that is not a lie. Because you do love her, it is just that the love is not manifest in your heart at that moment. It is there, it hasn't gone anywhere, but your heart is blocked, not allowing you to experience the loving feeling. Just because you don't feel the love doesn't mean that you are no longer in love. You are just going through a low patch as we all do from time to time, but the love is still there as it always was.   So it is perfectly honest to say "I love you", even at a moment when you don't feel it. And an amazing thing happens when you do. Your heart starts to melt. By mouthing the words "I love you", not because you felt like saying it, but because your wife needed to hear it, you have reached outside of yourself, bursting the bubble of self-absorption that is probably the cause of the blockage in the first place. Now you are open to feel again. It won't be long before the love starts flowing back, more powerful and passionate than ever.   The same applies to our relationship with G-d. Our soul is connected to G-d, because it is a part of Him. But we often don't feel that connection in our hearts, because we are spiritually blocked, our hearts are frozen to spirituality. The love is there, just like the soul is there, it is just not felt, not apparent.   We don't have to wait for those feelings to come in order to pray. It is the other way around, by saying the words of the prayers, even without feeling them, the layers of cynicism and doubt start to melt away and our connection to G-d comes to the surface.   So you can pray when you are not sure you believe it, just like you can tell your wife you love her even when you don't feel it. Because not so deep down, you really do.   Good Shabbos, Rabbi Moss To subscribe CLICK HERE or email rabbimoss@nefesh.com.au  PURIM EVENTS FILLING UP FAST CLICK FLYER TO BOOK NOW CLICK FLYER TO BOOK NOW SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Friday, 3 March, 2017 | 5 Adar 5777 Candle Lighting.............. 7:11 pm (*Earliest 6:13pm)   Mincha......................... 6:10 pm Friday Evening Service.... 6:30 pm Kiddush sponsored by Lance and Liza Friedman in honour of their recent wedding anniversary- Mazal Tov! Shabbos, 4 March, 2017 |6 Adar 5777 Chassidus Class................................ 9:00 am Children's program........................... 11:00am Shabbos Morning Service .....10:00 am-12:20 pm Followed by Bris of Josh & Kelly Frank's son and Kiddush in honour of the Bris; and also in honour of the recent Wedding Anniversary of David & Janet Kessler- Mazal Tov to all!   Mincha followed by Seudah Shlishis ......   7:05 pm Gematria and story by Rev Amzalak......... 7:25pm Shabbos ends and Maariv...................... 8:05 pm Followed by Havdalah   WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES Sunday  .......................... 8:00 am Mon- Fri........................... 7:00 am Latest Shema this week...... 9:53 am   FAST OF ESTHER | THURSDAY 9 MARCH FAST BEGINS: 5:30AM FAST ENDS 7:47PM   WEEKDAY CLASSES Monday Chassidus............ 8:00-8:45am   MAZAL TOV TO The Pozniak and Lowy families on Doron & Jessica's wedding this Sunday Josh and Kelly Frank and extended Frank and Rosenberg families on the birth of their son and grandson   HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Jack Reuben........... 6 Adar/ Saturday 4 March Doron Lever............ 6 Adar/ Saturday 4 March Shai Farhy............... 6 Adar/ Saturday 4 March Craig Deubler........... 8 Adar/ Monday 6 March Iliana Lavecky.......... 8 Adar/ Monday 6 March Yasmin Dabscheck.... 8 Adar/ Monday 6 March Lee-Anne  Whitten..... 9 Adar/ Tuesday 7 March Elana Castle............ 10 Adar/ Wednesday 8 March Daniel Lowinger........ 11 Adar/ Thursday 9 March Vicki Lever............... 12 Adar/ Friday 10 March Lisa Peles................ 12 Adar/ Friday 10 March   CONDOLENCES TO Allen Rosenberg and the extended Bernstein family on the passing of Fay Bernstein A"H   LONG LIFE TO Rev Amzalak for his late brother Chaim ben Yitzchak a"h....9 Adar/Wednesday 7 March Rosie Stern for her late father Elias Friedman............... 10 Adar/ Wednesday 8 March Leslie Tanchum for his late mother Esther Tanchum, Esther bat Hirsch Hillel........................................... 10 Adar/ Wednesday 8 March Les Regos for his late mother Mariska Regos, Miriam...... 13 Adar/ Saturday 11 March Donald Levy for his late father Noel David Levy Daniel Ben David..................................................... 13 Adar/ Saturday 11 March

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