Who Created G-d?

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Question of the Week:   My 6 year old daughter has asked me: If G-d created the world and everything in it, then who created G-d?   Would love your answer...   Answer:   Indeed, G-d created everything in the world. Not just tangible things, like trees and rocks and caterpillars, but abstract things too, ideas and concepts. time and space, G-d created them too.   Until G-d created these things, they did not exist. Before creation, there were no caterpillars, but there also was no time. Space did not exist before G-d created it. We created beings can't really picture what this means. We always say we don't have time, but we can't actually imagine existence before time. But that's what was before G-d created it.   Another idea G-d created was the very concept of creating, of a beginning. G-d made up the idea that things can be created, that they weren't there and then they are there. This too did not exist until G-d made it.   So you can't ask who created G-d. He created creating. He is above creation, not one of the creations.   This is hard enough for an adult to grasp. How can we explain this to a six year old? Here's an attempt:   Ole Christiansen was the person who invented Lego. So here's a question: Who put him together? Who built the Lego bits to make Ole Christiansen.   The answer is obvious. There was no Lego before Ole Christiansen. He invented it. He is not made of Lego, he made Lego.   G-d is a step further. Because Ole invented Lego, but G-d created everything. So just as Ole was there when there was no Lego, G-d was there when there was no creation, nothing, just Him.   See if your daughter accepts that answer. It may lead her to ask a bigger question: What was G-d doing before He created the world?  To answer that, there's no time.   Good Shabbos, Rabbi Moss  To subscribe CLICK HERE or email rabbimoss@nefesh.com.au  CLICK FLYER TO BOOK NOW CLICK FLYER TO BOOK NOW SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Friday, 3 February, 2017 | 7 Shevat 5777 Candle Lighting.............. 7:41 pm (*Earliest 6:37pm)   Mincha........................... 6:15 pm Friday Evening Service.... 6:30 pm Followed by Kiddush sponsored by Ron Moss in honour of his birthday- Mazal Tov! Shabbos, 4 February, 2017 |8 Shevat 5777 Chassidus Class........................ 9:00 am Shabbos Morning Service........ 10:00 am-12:20 pm Children's program..................11:00am Followed by Kiddush. FARBRENGEN at the Moss' home 4:30pm - all welcome   Mincha followed by Seudah Shlishis ........   7:35 pm Gematria and story by Rev Amzalak.......... 7:55 pm Shabbos ends and Maariv.......................... 8:38 pm Followed by Havdalah   WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES Sunday  .................................. 8:00 am Mon- Fri................................... 7:00 am Latest Shema this week........... 9:41 am   WEEKDAY CLASSES Monday Chassidus................... 8:00-8:45am   HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO Nikki & Eyal Kirshner........... 9 Shvat/ Sunday 5 February   LONG LIFE TO Jonathan Isdale for his late father Nathan Israel, Natan Ben Avraham............ 9 Shvat/ Sunday 5 February Estella Kantor for her late husband Louis Kantor, Leiba ben Shimon............. 10 Shvat/ Monday 6 February Les Pozniak for his late father Maurice Pozniak Moshe Ben Yeshiou........... 14 Shvat/ Friday 10 February This newsletter proudly sponsored by:

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Why We Say Shkoyach!

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Question of the Week:   My conversion process has been a huge learning curve. One of the many challenges is getting my head around all the terminology. I can finally pronounce Chanukah correctly, and I now know the difference between Kiddush and Kaddish (was embarrassing when I didn't), but there is one word that still confuses me: Shkoyach (spelling?). I hear people shout "shkoyach" after the rabbi's sermon, after someone gets called to the Torah, and sometimes even when I pass the herring at the Shabbos table. What exactly does shkoyach mean and when is the right time to say it?   Answer:   According to the Oxford Etymological Dictionary of Jewish Jargon[*], Shkoyach is a condensed version of the Hebrew phrase Yeyasher Kochacha, literally, "May your strength be extended." Ironically, the word "extended" was shortened, and people didn't have the koach (strength) to say the two guttural 'ch' sounds at the end, so it became Yasher Koach, which when said quickly sounds like Shkoyach.    Shkoyach is a versatile expression. It can be used to say bravo for a great sermon, good on you for being called to the Torah, or thank you for passing the herring. But the meaning is always the same. You have done something good, you should have the strength to do more.    This is much deeper than just saying thank you. Thank you is an acknowledgement of the good deed that has been done in the past. Shkoyach also encourages more good deeds in the future. It is bravo and encore rolled into one.   The message is that no matter how much good we have done, we can always increase. No matter how much we know, we can always learn more. As you know from your conversion process, in Judaism the learning never ends. The Talmud says, "Don't be shy to ask, or you will never learn."    So I'm glad you asked. Shkoyach for the question. Good Shabbos, Rabbi Moss   [*] Soon to be published, B'ezras Hashem (with G-d's help) To subscribe CLICK HERE or email rabbimoss@nefesh.com.au  WE'VE GOT YOUR LIFECYCLES COVERED AT NEFESH.... SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Friday, 27 January, 2017 | 29 Teves 5777 Candle Lighting............ 7:46 pm (*Earliest 6:37pm)   Mincha......................... 6:10 pm Friday Evening Service... 6:30 pm Followed by Kiddush sponsored by Malka Kurta in honour of the yortzheit of her late father Alexander Rees, Shlomo Ben David HaLevi on 7 Shvat - Long Life. Shabbos, 28 January 2017 |Rosh Chodesh Shevat 5777 Chassidus Class........................ 9:00 am Shabbos Morning Service........ 10:00 am-12:30 pm Children's program................. 11:00am Followed by Kiddush.    Mincha followed by Seudah Shlishis ..7:40 pm Shabbos ends and Maariv............. 8:44 pm Followed by Havdalah   WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES Sunday  .................................. 8:00 am Mon- Fri................................... 7:00 am Latest Shema this week........... 9:39 am   WEEKDAY CLASSES Monday Chassidus.................... 8:00-8:45am   HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Naomi Ziv.................... 6 Shvat/ Thursday 2 February Golda Moss.................. 6 Shvat/ Thursday 2 February Natalie Dabscheck........ 7 Shvat / Friday 3 February CONDOLENCES TO Ricki Corrick, Justice Stephen Rothman OAM and their families on the passing of their mother Anne Rothman a"h.   LONG LIFE TO Tauba Tanchum for her late brother Percy Kaplan, Pesach ben Tevia...1 Shvat/ Saturday 28 January Annabel Sherell De Florence for her late father, Isaac Leo Sherrel de Florence...1 Shvat/ Saturday 28 January Adam Ensly for his late father Gideon Ensly, Gideon ben Shlomo...2 Shvat/ Sunday 29 January Harry Kornfeld for his late mother Regina Kornfeld, Rivka bas Alexander...5 Shvat/ Wednesday 1 February Malka Kurta for her late father Alexander Rees, Shlomo Ben David HaLevi..... 7 Shvat/ Friday 3 February

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Shoud My Husband's Phone be Off Limits?

He feels like he is being bugged

Question of the Week:      Are text messages private? My husband and I have a major disagreement over this. He gets furious when I look at his phone, saying I have no business reading his private messages. I feel that as a married couple we should have nothing to hide from each other. I am not saying I am at all suspicious of him, I completely trust him. But should his inbox be totally out of bounds for me?   Answer:   The answer to your quandary is on the tip of your finger. Just look at your wedding ring.   We use a ring to get married because it represents the ideal relationship. A ring wraps itself snugly around the finger. It has to fit securely, otherwise it will fall off and get lost. But at the same time, a well-fitted ring should not cramp the finger. It can't be so tight as to cut off circulation. A comfortable ring will hug the finger, not strangle it.   This delicate balance of holding on tight but not too tight is the exact balance required in a marriage. Being married means being intimate. When we are in love, we want to embrace our spouse on all levels, surrounding them with care and showering them with affection. We want to share every experience and explore every layer of their being. We want to hold them tight and be there for them every second of the day.   But this devotion can go overboard. What starts as inclusion can become intrusion. If we smother each other to the point where lines distinguishing us are blurred, when we invade on the private space of the other to the point where nothing is sacred, we have drifted from being loving to being over-bearing, from supporting to squashing.   Even loving partners need space. Not everything has to be shared and not all that is mine is yours. For me to maintain my dignity and my identity, I need to protect a certain level of privacy, a domain that is mine and mine alone.    Each couple has to find the balance between intimacy and privacy that is right for them. Some couples share one email account and are fine with that. Others would find that stifling. Your husband has expressed where he draws his line. You feel differently.    But if as you write you indeed trust him, then his wishes deserve to be respected. Be like a wedding ring, tight enough to be intimate, loose enough to give some space. He doesn't want to feel like he's being bugged, he wants to feel like he's being hugged.    Good Shabbos, Rabbi Moss  To subscribe CLICK HERE or email rabbimoss@nefesh.com.au  SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Friday, 20 January, 2017 | 22 Teves 5777 Candle Lighting.............. 7:49 pm (*Earliest 6:43pm)   Mincha.......................... 6:10 pm Friday Evening Service... 6:30 pm Followed by Kiddush.   Shabbos, 21 January 2017 |23 Teves 5777 Chassidus Class........................ 9:00 am Shabbos Morning Service........ 10:00 am-12:20 pm Children's program................. 11:00am Kiddush sponsored by Peter Irving and Libby Moss in honour of the yortzheit of their mother Joan Cohen, Chana bas Yesse A"H on 27 Teves- Long Life    Mincha followed by Seudah Shlishis ............   7:45 pm Shabbos ends and Maariv............................. 8:49 pm Followed by Havdalah   WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES Sun and Thurs (public holiday)... 8:00 am Mon- Fri............................ 7:00 am Latest Shema this week.... 9:33 am   WEEKDAY CLASSES Monday Chassidus............. 8:00-8:45am   MAZAL TOV TO Joshua and Shiran Garber on the birth of a baby boy! Michael and Angelina Barel on the birth of a baby boy!   HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Richelle Goldshaft............. 25 Tevet/ Monday 23 January Cade Lessem.................... 25 Tevet/ Monday 23 January   LONG LIFE TO Adele Glick for her late father Mendel Rieback...24 Tevet/ Sunday 22 January Carol Melman for her late father Arnold Shapiro Aron Ben Yitzchak... 25 Tevet/ Monday 23 January Judy Traub for her late husband David Traub David ben Yaacov... 26 Tevet/ Tuesday 24 January Libby Moss and Peter Irving for their late mother Joan Cohen,  Chana bas Yesse...27 Teves/ Wednesday 25 January Rosie Stern for her late mother Leah Friedman...28 Tevet/ Thursday 26 January

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